Just your average married, infertile, Canadian woman. I spent the first half of my thirties focused on two goals: motherhood and a PhD. IVF/ICSI brought us our son (E.) in 2011, but a sibling eluded us, despite our best efforts. In between pregnancy, parenting, and trying again, I wrestled the PhD into submission and defended in 2014. Now, after six years as a doctoral student, and seven years of blood draws, ultrasounds, and embryo transfers, it's time to figure out what comes next. A perpetual student, I still don't know what I want to do when I grow up, except write and run.