Comments for Res Cogitatae

Comment on Umm…I thought we were getting a break? by Mel

Mel — Thu, 12 Nov 2009 15:30:07 +0000

Break? What’s that?

Maybe this timing is completely fortuitous. I hope so.
*hugs*

Comment on Umm…I thought we were getting a break? by Ashley

Ashley — Tue, 10 Nov 2009 23:06:42 +0000

Good luck honey! YOu are in my thoughts and prayers;)

Comment on Head up, shoulders back by Mel

Mel — Tue, 03 Nov 2009 17:33:31 +0000

I am so sorry that things went the wrong way this time. There never really are appropriate words to say to any of my fellow IF’ers when this happens, either. What I will say is that having multiple failures under my belt has made me stronger in the end and though as bitterly and exhaustingly painful as they were at the time, they just blend in with the rest of my life’s history now. Time may not completely heal all wounds, but the scars do ultimately fade.
Sending you hugs and peace.

Comment on Head up, shoulders back by Good Egg Hunting

Good Egg Hunting — Tue, 03 Nov 2009 01:44:24 +0000

I know exactly how you feel, and it is so great that you can disengage from it and go back to enjoying those things you have that you so deserve to enjoy. I wish you a relaxing break full of good things, and here’s to the right side of the odds in December.

Comment on Expected but still wretched by Simple

Simple — Mon, 02 Nov 2009 15:24:38 +0000

I’m sending your hugs. My ivf #1 was the same – beta limbo with eventually a negative result. Nothing we say will make you feel better, but perhaps knowing you are not alone will bring a little comfort. Try to hang in there & take care of yourself.

Comment on Expected but still wretched by Springroll

Springroll — Mon, 02 Nov 2009 02:57:11 +0000

T – I just don’t know what to say… I’ve not had the chance to catch up on any of my blogs until tonight and I was crushed when I saw your entry. I am so, so, so, sorry that this has happened once again. Please know that you have been in my thoughts and prayers and will continue to be…I will never lose hope for you because you will be the most amazing mother one day.
Sending you a huge hug,
SR

Comment on Expected but still wretched by Alexicographer

Alexicographer — Sun, 01 Nov 2009 02:19:20 +0000

I’m so sorry.

Yes, I know just what you mean. I got canceled last time I tried to cycle, and except for the fact that I require high doses (i.e. lots of $$$) from the get-go, I couldn’t have asked for an easier cancellation. I stimmed for 5 days. One and only one follicle grew. I got canceled. I was totally OK with that, I mean, I wasn’t happy, but I got that it was the right decision. I saw the 1 follicle on the morning u/s and thought, eh, canceled, darn, at least it’s early. But when the RE called me in the afternoon to tell me that my E2 was still low (no, really?) and that yes, they really did think I should cancel just as we’d already discussed that morning and agreed to (duh), I still sounded sad and shaky on the phone. WTF?

Hope you have plenty of chocolate and vodka on hand, or whatever your combination of naughty/cheer-me-up items is.

Comment on Expected but still wretched by Kate

Kate — Sat, 31 Oct 2009 16:37:48 +0000

I am so so so sorry. Please know how much I am thinking of you.

Comment on Expected but still wretched by Sarah

Sarah — Sat, 31 Oct 2009 02:07:54 +0000

Turia,

I’m so sorry. Just so sad for you right now, and wishing I could comfort you somehow.

Will be thinking about you…

Comment on Expected but still wretched by Guera!

Guera! — Sat, 31 Oct 2009 00:41:37 +0000

I am so very sorry. I wish I could be there for you.